It can be difficult to know how to respond if you think (or know, that someone at your church struggles with disordered eating. If this is you, you’re in the right place. There are some thoughts here about how you might respond.
But first, a few things to remember:
Eating disorders are common: It’s likely that some people in your faith community struggle with disordered eating, even if you aren’t aware of it.
Eating disorders are serious: They can cause deep suffering, turn families’ lives upside down, and sometimes lead to death.
Eating disorders are often misunderstood: There are several myths and stereotypes about eating disorders. People with eating disorders have shared some basic tips about how to help and things to avoid.
Eating disorder care takes a team: Eating disorders are complex and multidimensional. Healthcare professional involvement is important. Alongside this, members of a faith community can play a unique role by living out God’s unconditional love.
Eating disorders are often a long journey: People rarely get better from an eating disorder overnight. If you are supporting someone, remember that your role is not to ‘fix’ them. And look after yourself on this journey.
Remember that God is already at work. Ask Him to go before you, and for His help and guidance about what role you might play.
